i am a 45 year old single male, i'm 5' 8" and i weigh about 200 lbs, i have a belly but good looking i carry it well. i live by myself in freeport long island. i have more than a few tattoos but less than a bunch. i have an eclectic taste in music. i was a big time punker growing up but now my style is more rockabilly. i really love all kinds of music. my favorites movies are all that jazz, a touch of evil, and wings of desire. my favorite authors are neil gaiman, kurt vonnegut, and hunter s thompson. my hair is now longer than in that picture but that's just because i can. among most of my male friends i'm one of the few who still can grow my hair out and not for a comb over. i'm a pretty laid back kind of guy who tries not to let the stress of life get to me. i plan to drive cross-country soon just because it is something i have always wanted to do. i will tell you i'm not looking to just hook up or anything. for me there has to be an intelligent connection for for me to even want to get involved with anyone. so even if it turns out we just have a nice friendship that would be just fine with me

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