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devil_bat Profile Information

Dark at heart and a black-out in mind.
Age 39 From Boston, Massachusetts - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English, Spanish
I Would Describe Myself As  
Reserved. Calm. Quiet. But I can unexpectedly be a funny/witty guy.
Tired of the drama in my old friend group. So, for the sake of my sanity, I'm looking to make new friends for myself- Not have the new mix with the old. Anyone interested in chatting, just send a message with your AlM screenname and I'll get back to you whenever I can. Sorry, but I don't want to have to pay to send messages
Sign  
Taurus

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Average
My Height Is  
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
Hispanic/latino
I Have Kids  
Yes - At Home
My Best Feature Is  
Hands
My Hair Is  
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
No pets
Willing To Relocate  
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is  
High School Diploma
My Current Employment Status Is  
Homemaker
My Speciality Is  
Art / Music / Literature
My Job Title Is  
Stay-at-home-dad.
At Home  
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
No

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is  
Reserved, Shy, Observant, Anti-social, Comedic, Dark, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Arts & Crafts, Learning, Internet, Games
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Rather than "first date", I'll place more about myself here for those interested in meeting me. (Since I'm not seeking dates. Just friendships)
Strangly enough, I'm more complicated to people closer to me than those who aren't...so far.
To the sensative/emotional, I would be considered unkind. But to people who are down to Earth, I'm an alright fellow. I hold doors, say thank you (sometimes too quiet to hear, so I'm sorry if it is), am considerate of people who want silence, cleanliness, even kids (refuse to curse infront of them). And I'm polite with parents.
Why unkind, you ask? Well, I've got a wooden heart, according to my mother (who I love and respect very much, despite very different life styles). I'm not sensative nor emotional. The thought of anyone being over emotional, dramatic, or just too sensative sickens me slightly. I am understanding about it, so by slightly, I mean "Turning my head away quietly, avoiding this little mess, and keeping to myself".
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Picky yes, but I'm only interested in new friendships specifically in the true goth field.
Music- Not required, but if anything, music such as Midnight Syndicate, Switchblade Symphony, Unto Ashes, and other related music. NOT music such as today's type of punk rock with the whiny/emo screaming/moaning singing style.
Personality- I'd like to meet what seems to be impossible to find in this era. Down-to-Earth people. People who still enjoy old horror movies. People who are NOT into anime or anything related to cutesy Japanese things (Cannot stand its fans). Also, I'd love to meet people who aren't young-minded. Such as the teen "goths" who visit malls weekly, blast M. Manson hatefully towards peers/their parents, ruining walls with posters and painting all of their furniture black. I'd much rather meet the real Gothic styled people who are calm, relaxed, dark-minded, creative, and know how to dress beautifully. Not angsty youngins who simply MUST wear all black ALL of the time.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Obscure, Goofy

Views

My Religion Is  
Atheist
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is  
...
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Slapstick, Sadistic

Taste

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Comedy, Horror
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Classical, Industrial, Ambient
When I Read, I Always Read  
Ancient, Horror, Humor, Mystery
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Call me strange, but...
Random acts of goofy nonsense (Not bad enough to the point of police getting involved).
Relaxing in quiet areas with people I'm confortable with, especially if you don't ruin the moment or feel bored. Could be anything from watching a movie to sitting outdoors at night. Or in a vehicle just hanging out.
Being out late at night(Late night adventures), with no real reason, just for the sake of being spontanious and searching for anything crazy that may happen.
Story telling or hearing stories. I love to hear people's stories.
Exploring.
Taking the train anywhere.
Getting lost with people.
On semi-rare occasions, interacting with random strangers in goofy ways. More often when I'm a passenger in a car.
Trips to Wendy's, McD's, BK, IHOP, even 7/11's.
I'd pretty much love to meet someone whom I could share these types of moments with.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Humor, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit
What Do You Look For?  
Anyone who isn't emotional or sensative.
Anyone who isn't into emo music or music with whiny/emo screaming/moaning such as the type done by bands like AFI, Greenday, Simple Plan, etc. (Sorry to the fans. No offense intended, just not my taste and am quite tired of hearing the same thing daily from dreadful friends). Just people who enjoy music that doesn't revolve around feelings. Blegh.
People who aren't trying to befriend me by living a lie just to get my attention. Don't act like you're everything I described just to get me to be your friend. I'm young, but I'm too old for that nonsense. Thank you.
I also seek friendships in people who don't turn to drugs or alcohol for a good time. Good times can be made without the aid of such substances.
And lastly (picky maybe, but after much of my experiences, it's well worth the shot). No cutesy amine fans. No copy-cats. I really do love originality. I'm creative and will appreciate my creativity not being copied
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend
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